A bit of Rome’s etiquette

[revised March 2026] When we travel, we have the privilege of encountering new cultures. However, while we often envision our travel experiences in idyllic ways, not always are we prepared for the practical sides of living these experiences within the respectful bounds of the local culture. If we are not aware of social norms in a foreign country, we can find ourselves at ends with it (and, likewise, locals at ends with us), leaving us with a less ideal experience than we had in mind.

Often, this is simply because we had no idea what these customs are. Here some easy tips:

• fountains: Rome hosts about 300 monumental fountains which are an integral part of the historical and artistic heritage of the city and, as such, are protected by law. It is forbidden to get in (even partially – not even just your feet), climb, sit or lie down on the fountains.  
• museums : it is forbidden to touch the works of art, to photograph paintings and frescoes with the use of flash and to use selfie sticks in museums.
• churches: access is allowed only to visitors dressed in a respectful way; basically, with shoulders and knees covered. Men are requested to take off their hat in sign of respect. In churches it is forbidden to sit on the ground. Celebrations schedule is always posted at church entrances and during their time visits are not allowed. NB : the Pantheon is also a church and  same rules apply
•  public security: national Police Forces are the “State Police” (blue uniform and blue cars), the “Carabinieri” (black uniform with red bands, black cars), and the “Guardia di Finanza” (green uniform, grey/yellow cars). The local police force of Rome is the “Roma Capitale Police” (blue uniform and white cars). Soldiers in front of monuments / palaces / embassies / stations are soldiers of the Italian Army engaged, since 2008, in the “Safe Roads Operation” in support of the fight against terrorism. It is forbidden to take photos of these  guards and vehicles. NB : the single emergency telephone number is 112. The number must be dialled without an international prefix.
• tips: tipping in Italy is a non-mandatory extra, at total discretion of the customer. However, in the tourism and restaurant sector it is common to tip if the service has been particularly pleasant and the staff courteous and attentive. The percentage is usually around 10% of the total service.

We hope these tips are helpful, let us know if there are other subjects you have doubts about (write an email to info@afriendinrome.it).